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APOSTLES FOR LIFE NEWS

MAY-JUNE 2003 AD - THE YEAR OF THE HOLY ROSARY

Published bi-monthly, with the support and encouragement of the Bishop of Lismore, the Most Reverend Geoffrey Jarrett, to inspire and support pro-life prayer, education and action - a means of communication between those who attend our meetings and those who are unable to attend for whatever reason. Meetings are held 11am on the 3rd Saturday of each month in the Cathedral in prayer support of all pro-life activists in the Lismore Diocese, followed by informative discussion over a cuppa at Doyle House.

Editor: Angela Martello

He is risen! He has conquered sin and death. It is through Him, with Him and in Him that we continue His work in 2003, in the place we find ourselves. Without Him we can do nothing. With Him we can win the battle of Life over death.

The only way to conquer the deadly epidemics that are raging through our society is through prayer, and the practice of the Virtues, particularly modesty and chastity. But how can we expect our youth to practice chastity if their parents and teachers do not take the lead in practicing and teaching chastity? We must be prepared to speak the Truth with Love, whenever and wherever it is being denied, or is not being proclaimed. Is chastity being taught in the home and in the school? Is modesty encouraged in the street, the school, the Church? If not, we are culpable for depriving our young of what is, in justice, their due, and selling them short.

Towards this end, you will find on page 2, “The Advantages of Natural Family Planning over Contraception”, which has been adapted from a brochure of Fr. Paul Marx, Founder of Human Life International. I hope you can make good use of it, sharing it with family, friends or in your parish.

The other good news is that, around September, we will have a weekend of prayer and sharing at Mt. Tabor Retreat House in Bellingen. This will be a wonderful opportunity to relax, and make new, and renew old friendships, in a peaceful and beautiful environment, while being renewed and nourished by prayer. The emphasis will be mainly on meeting and sharing what we are doing in our various parishes and pro-life apostolates and there will be the opportunity to hear Dr. Deirdre Little speak on a subject vital to the pro-life apostolate – Humanae Vitae. More details later.

This News is coming a little early, as I wanted to give you earlier notice of our meetings with Brisbane Courage, which will take place over the weekend of 10th-11th May in Lismore, and to ask your prayers that we will reach those in need of the saving message that Courage has to offer (see page 3).

God bless,

Angela

The Advantages of Natural Family Planning

Over Contraception

Adapted from ”The Advantages of Natural Family Planning” brochure by Fr Paul Marx, O.S.B., Ph.D.

(1) NFP does not interfere with the natural reproductive system and process designed by God.

(2) NFP is morally acceptable to all religions and cultures.

(3) NFP avoids the use of mechanical devices or powerful hormones, which may have harmful effects.

(4) NFP is among the most effective methods of non-permanent fertility regula¬tion, when learned and used properly - up to 99 %.

(5) NFP is virtually free of charge, whereas contraceptive and abortifacient methods cost anywhere from $US33 to $US365 annually. This is particularly crucial in developing countries where health care is rudimentary and expensive.

(6) NFP strengthens marriage and family. It allows husband and wife to have the dignity of actual stewardship of the gift of fer¬tility according to their unique circumstances. It fosters sexual self-control, which is central and essential to human freedom, true love and maturity. It also sets a good example of chastity in married life for teenage children.

(7) NFP is aesthetic. Of all of the methods of fertility regulation, only NFP allows the couple to make love as God and nature intended. It is an enduring contradiction that many of the same people who pride themselves on the “natural” aspects of their lives don’t hesitate to pollute their bodies with drugs and devices, and cannot let the most intimate aspect of their existence be truly natural and human.

(8) NFP cannot cause abortion as contraception may do.

(9) NFP, unlike all contraceptive and abortifacient methods, lets women and men learn about their bodies and work with them, rather than remaining ignorant and subduing them with chemicals.

(10) Finally, NFP allows husbands to more intimately understand the psychology of their wives by understanding the nature of their menstrual cycles.

 

Brisbane Courage comes to Lismore

As a follow-up to Fr. John Harvey’s visit, and to consolidate the work started at that time, all are warmly invited to meet members of Brisbane Courage who will share their experiences, and possibly testimonies, with us, at 2pm on Saturday 10th May, at the Parish Centre, St Carthage Cathedral, Lismore.

Our guest speaker, Brendan Scarce, BA, DipEd, BSocStud, BTh, is involved with Brisbane Courage from its beginnings five years ago. In his private practice, he counsels both lay and religious, who experience unwanted same-sex attraction, and is willing to share pastoral insights with us. He is a member of Emmanuel Covenant Community, is presently studying for his Masters in Theology.

He will cover the psychological, social and moral elements of homosexuality, correcting any misinformation about Courage in the media. Courage is about respecting each person in whatever circumstances he/she finds him/herself.

He will speak on the work of both

• Courage - an international Catholic Ministry which invites men and women who experience same sex attraction into relationship with Jesus Christ and helps them, through support groups and a spiritual program, to live chaste lives in accordance with Church teaching, and

• EnCourage - a ministry dedicated to the spiritual needs of parents, siblings, children, relatives and friends of persons with same sex attraction. There is Holy Mass in the Cathedral at 5pm, after which there will be a chance to share a meal together, chat and relax at a venue yet to be decided.

========================================================= Special request for prayer The work of Courage – EnCourage may not be for you, but we ask you to make a special effort to intercede in prayer before the Blessed Sacrament that those in need may be helped to come to understand and accept God’s providence of Grace to live a chaste life, and that they might be feel loved by, and welcomed in, His Church. ===================================================

The following excerpt from Brisbane Courage Newsletter (April 2003) - from a report of Father Harvey’s meeting in Brisbane, which was subject to a group of hostile protesters - illustrates the importance and reassurance of prayer support for those involved in the work:

“The anger and hatred displayed in the press and in the papers means that we have to base our work ever more deeply in prayer. On the night of the Brisbane meeting, a small group of Emmanuel Covenant Community members were in intercession before the Blessed Sacrament. I took great heart from this. Courage is such a small group. Yet the amount of press comment and rage against it was out of all proportion to its size. As someone said to me during the protest, we must be doing the Lord’s work because of the opposition and its hell-bent determination to block out our simple message of becoming holy and seeking the face of God in our lives, our actions, our behaviours, our recreations and mission. “Be perfect as your Heavenly Father is perfect.” The clear message of the good news of God’s gift of sexuality needs to be proclaimed with clarity, charity, conciseness, confidence and courage.”

 

This Is My Body

 Fr. Frank A. Pavone, Priests For Life

Did you realize that the same four words that were used by the Lord Jesus to save the world, are also used to promote abortion?

"This is my body."  The same simple words are spoken from opposite ends of the universe, with meanings that are directly contrary to each other.

Scripture tells us that on the night before He died, the Lord Jesus took bread, blessed it, broke it, and gave it to His disciples, saying, "This is My Body, which is given up for you." He was pointing to what would happen the next day, when He would give that same Body on the Cross. He sacrifices Himself so that we may live. He gives up His Body so that He can destroy the power of sin and death. As a result, He welcomes us into His life, into His Kingdom. He makes us members of His Body!

On the other hand, abortion supporters say, "This is my body. So don't interfere with it! It's mine. I can do what I want, even to the point of killing the life within it. All is secondary to my dominion over my body." In fact one abortion supporter has written, "I say their (pro-lifers') God is worth nothing compared to my body" (Michelle Goldberg, "Rant for Choice," in University of Buffalo student newspaper, 1995).

"This is my body." Same words, different results. Christ gives His body so we might live; abortion supporters cling to their bodies so others might die. In giving His Body, Christ teaches the meaning of love: I sacrifice myself for the good of the other person. Abortion teaches the opposite of love: I sacrifice the other person for the good of myself!

"This is my body." If, indeed, my body is mine, then let's ask the question: Why? The answer is so that I can give my body, my life, myself, in love to one another and to God. Christ declares, "Do this in memory of Me." He calls us to do what He did, and that is precisely how we reverse the dynamic of abortion. Mum and Dad must say to their child, "This is my body, my life, given for you," rather than, "This is my body, my life, so go away!"

Human happiness and fulfillment are never found by pushing others out of the way. They are found when we push ourselves out of the way. Pope John Paul II says as much in Evangelium Vitae #51:

He who had come "not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many" (Mk. 10:45), attains on the Cross the heights of love: "Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends" (Jn. 15:13). “And He died for us while we were yet sinners” (cf. Rom. 5:8).

In this way Jesus proclaims that life finds its centre, its meaning and its fulfillment when it is given up.

At this point our meditation becomes praise and thanksgiving, and at the same time urges us to imitate Christ and follow in his footsteps (cf. 1 Pt. 2:21).

We too are called to give our lives for our brothers and sisters, and thus to realize in the fullness of truth the meaning and destiny of our existence.

"This is my body." It is no accident that the same words are used for such different purposes. A spiritual conflict rages here. We win, in our own lives and in the world, by living these words in self-giving, life-giving love.

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News from around the Diocese…………

Please share what is happening in your area….It encourages and inspires us all. Teresita Zapirain of Dorrigo writes:

Just a short note to tell you what I organised up here in Dorrigo on the Feast of the Annunciation. With Fr Jim’s permission we organised Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament from 10 to 11am. I considered it a success because we got ten persons to attend as compared to the 4 or 5 we have on Saturday mornings. Besides the Rosary we included prayers that were sent up to me by Human Life International. Some even asked me for a copy of my very worn pamphlet, which I have been photocopying to give away. I think I may have enlisted a couple more people to pray for the pro-life cause. I guess that’s all for now. Best regards and more power to your movement,                           Teresita

…………………Thank you so much, Teresita, for your Good News! Ten people adoring Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament for an hour is a wonderful gift to celebrate his arrival in this world as a tiny invisible Babe in the Womb, nevertheless God and Man even then. To celebrate the Annunciation in this way each year is bound to get through to people the value of Life from its very beginnings.

……And around the World

The Power of love

Commenting on a case involving a Briton who went to Switzerland to die with the help of Dignitas, a writer in the Observer (Nov 10) pointed out the dangers of letting people in pain put an end to their lives. The writer, Alison Davis, has spina bifida, emphysema and osteoporosis. Confined to a wheelchair and in severe daily pain, she tried to commit suicide 17 years ago. At the time, one doctor had estimated she only had six months to live. And a law allowing euthanasia in cases of unbearable suffering would have allowed her to undergo euthanasia.

What changed her life was a trip to India, where she visited disabled children. As a result of that visit, she founded, and now runs, a charity to help the disabled children. The children, she explained, also have incurable conditions, and many suffer much pain. But, she noted: "They can and do give and receive a tremendous love, which transformed my life."

Giving love, and not an overdose, to those tempted to end their lives would be a truly dignified way to approach the problem. Zenit 25-1-03

Mother Teresa on Contraception

But the saints who catch the popular imagination are those who seem to take their virtues to an extreme. The purest modern example is Mother Teresa of Calcutta. She is due to be beatified as quickly as possible, perhaps even this year, and in a large part that is a result of her global fame as being the most compassionate human being it is possible to be. This was not entirely apparent to journalists: on the only occasion I met her she grasped my hand, looked at me with absolute sincerity and, as I braced myself for something profound and life-changing, she said:

“Tell your readers that contraception murders love.”

Andrew Brown, The Times, June 6, 2001,

Why Saints go Marching on.

 
 
 
 

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