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APOSTLES FOR LIFE NEWS
JULY-AUGUST 2003 AD - THE YEAR OF THE HOLY ROSARY
Published bi-monthly, with the support and
encouragement of the Bishop of Lismore, the Most Rev. Geoffrey Jarrett,
to inspire and support pro-life prayer, education and action - a means
of communication between those who attend our meetings and those who are
unable to attend. Meetings are held 11am on 3rd Saturday of the month in
the Cathedral in prayer support of all pro-life activists in the Lismore
Diocese, followed by informative discussion over a cuppa at the Parish
Centre.
Editor: Angela Martello |
I want to share with you a letter from Linda Watson, a truly amazing person
who, through God’s Grace, escaped the world of prostitution. In spite of not the
best health & violent attacks by vested interests, she gives herself
courageously & unceasingly to help young people already snared, & fights to
prevent legalization of prostitution. Linda needs both spiritual & financial
support. See Page 2..….
In May a group of 12 people gathered at St. Carthage Parish Centre to share &
to learn from the personal experience of Brendan & Michael in their Courage
work. You’ll find a report on page 3…..
Many of you will remember that, at our anniversary meeting last August,
Dr. Deirdre Little spoke to us on “Whatever Happened to the Hippocratic
Oath?” & later a printed version of her talk was advertised in October 2002
AFL News. Well, Human Life International’s Gail Instance got a copy & was so
impressed that Deirdre has been invited to present “Whatever Happened to the
Hippocratic Oath?” to the Health Professionals’ Seminar of HLI’s Humanae Vitae
Conference to be held in Sydney, 25-27 July at the Sacred Heart Monastery
Kensington. More on this conference on page 4………..
“Come Away to a Quiet Place and Rest a While”
Our retreat plans are now well underway. I will be wonderful to get together
with others involved in pro-life work and prayer. I hope you can take the
opportunity to come & make new & renew old friendships, & be refreshed, renewed
& inspired to carry on this most important work for the coming of His Kingdom.
Applications will be received on a first-come first-served basis. Hopefully we
will be able to accommodate everyone who would like to take part. Details on
page 5, and application form page 7……
And you’ll find suggestions for possible actions where you may be able to
effect a change for the better and we have a tribute to a very special lady! on
page 6…..
May Our Lord continue to shower His richest blessings on you, your family and
your work for Him,
Linda’s House of Hope, PO Box 5640 St George’s Terrace WA 6831
We continue to get many calls from girls wanting to find a way out of the
prostitution trap. Our shelter can only house 4 girls at one time. The recovery
time is usually lengthy; we can only help a limited number of girls in this way.
We also support girls who live independently, who are in various stages of
recovery, encourage them to keep on the road to recovery, and make them aware of
the appropriate support services for them.
It is a real joy and delight to see girls arriving with nothing but the
clothes they are wearing, moving forward to take control of their lives. There
are many pitfalls. They need to establish a new social circle. They need to
learn how to budget – and believe me it is no mean feat to manage on Centrelink
benefits after living on the lucrative earnings of prostitution. Sadly, for some
98% of our girls, the bulk of their money was spent on drugs. So, for all the
income, there is nothing to show for it.
We have a zero tolerance policy to drugs, so most girls are referred to drug
rehab facilities, and from there they come back to us, and continue the path to
recovery. Because of the huge psychological and emotional damage that
prostitution does, the road to recovery is long and difficult. One of their
struggles is to go out and about without thinking that everyone can see they are
prostitutes. One young volunteer has taken two girls under her wing including
them in her social life, so they can experience a normal birthday party, a
church outing and more.
In the past year, I have been very involved in fighting legalization of
prostitution in the various states and NZ, accepting many speaking engagements
to expose the truth about the prostitution industry. Those promoting legalizing
are claiming that it is just like any other job. From my experience of over 20
years in the sex industry, I can tell them what it is like. And no one can argue
that “you would not know”. I am devoting significant time to the fight against
legalisation, because throughout the world, legalisation has always increased
the size of the sex industry. E.G. in Victoria there were some 50 brothels and
escort agencies in 1984 prior to legalizing, and now there are around 1,200!
That means more broken lives. I see opposing the legalizing of prostitution as
part of the preventative side of my work.
At this time, I am living in the house that serves as the office for Linda’s
House of Hope. The lounge room is our office, where a p/t person helps out with
admin and secretarial duties. A p/t bookkeeper also helps with the financial
management. I find it increasingly hard to relax at home, due to the constant
pressure. Another house, a few doors down, is used as the shelter. Since the
fire bombing of the shelter last year, and various other events, we are extra
careful with security. We normally do not give out our location, only phone
number, and P.O. Box.
To assist the many girls who contact us, to leave the industry, we need to
restructure our work. My dream is to be freed to work with the girls – which is
what I do best. To do that we need a person in the office 5 mornings a week,
answering calls, doing admin and keeping supporters informed. We would love to
engage a social worker to help with the rehab work, training the girls in
budgeting and other life skills, and helping them move into the community.
We really need to expand our support base, and so I invite you to let us know
of other people, who you think might like to support us, and to whom we might
send this newsletter. Donations to Linda’s House of Hope are tax deductible.
Thank you for standing with me in rescuing women from prostitution. I look
forward to your ongoing support. With Christian greetings, Linda Watson, Founder
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Courage Comes to Lismore (again)
Everyone who attended our Courage meeting was pleased that they had come.
Everyone said that they had learnt a great deal, and were reassured by the
message of hope that Brendan and Michael brought to us.
After a prayerful introduction from
the Psalms, each person gave a brief personal resume to the rest of the group.
Then Brendan spoke to us, (revealing his great love and knowledge of Scripture
which was a joy to observe), on the work of Courage particularly
• his wealth of experience in
counselling persons with same sex attraction,
• stressing the importance of the
whole person,
• rather than an identification with
the presenting problem,
• the importance of patience and
prayer, and
• the aim of developing chaste
friendships, and growth in the spiritual life,
• the importance of Catholic prayer
and the Sacraments
• not orientation change, which may
or may not eventuate.
After a chance to mingle over p.m. tea, we regathered for further questions,
comments and discussion. Most persons present had some personal experience of a
loved one affected by same sex attraction, whether family member or friend,
while some had a pastoral interest as well. Some were pleased of the opportunity
to discuss and share, in a safe Catholic environment, their dilemma about what
to do and say, in order to be able to help their loved ones.
Some misconceptions, “born that way”, “once gay - always gay”, etcetera, were
brought to light and corrected. One of the biggest obstacles that most people
have to overcome is misinformation and the negative media portrayal of same sex
attraction as immutable. This affects us all, and priests, while being
absolutely crucial to helping those who experience SSA, are not exempt. Many
persons coming to Courage say that priests, whom they sought out for help,
unhelpful. We need, somehow, to publish far and wide the full message of
Courage, which is synonymous with Catholic Teaching, that chastity is not only
possible, but the only way to wholeness, and fulfilment. It may seem like one of
those “hard sayings” but it is crucial.
There are many men and women who have never identified with the
euphemistically labelled “gay-scene”, who struggle bravely alone to defeat SSA.
There are others who, having identified with the “gay-scene”, find it difficult
to leave, because it offers a sense of camaraderie and lessens their isolation.
Nevertheless they find that it does not satisfy. Courage is always careful not
to label persons “homosexual”, “gay” and “lesbian”, as this reductionist way of
labelling can prevent a person moving beyond their sexual attractions, and
relating as whole person to whole person.
The latest update from the Catholic Medical Association - called
Homosexuality and Hope - was recommended. As the title suggests, it is a great
source of hope – talks about the nature, prevention and therapy of SSA, and
addresses recommendations to families, medical practitioners, teachers, priests,
bishops and the general community. It is available on
www.cathmed.org A wide range of
practical reading material, videos and audios, testimonies is available, and I
would recommend you check out Courage on
www.couragerc.org
It seems that the need for an Encourage group could grow from the present
embryonic stage. A few expressing that need have come forward or are in contact
with those who were able to attend. There is certainly a great need to publish
the truth about the nature of same-sex attraction. As information about Courage
and EnCourage becomes better known it is likely that more will come forward.
After 5pm Mass which there was an opportunity for fellowship and relaxation over
dinner, which wound up a wonderful day with new friends.
Humanae Vitae 35th Anniversary Conference
This Conference marks the 35th anniversary of Pope Paul VI’s Encyclical
Letter, Humanae Vitae, which was largely rejected as being “unrealistic” and
“too hard”, with devastating consequences for the Church, and for society. Today
we are seeing the results that he so accurately predicted, if artificial birth
control was not rejected, when he said:
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how wide and easy a road would thus be opened towards conjugal
infidelity and the general lowering of morality. Not much
experience is needed in order to know human weakness, and the understand
that men – especially the young, who are so vulnerable on this point –
have need of encouragement to be faithful to the moral law, so that they
must not be offered some easy means of eluding its observance.
It is also to be feared that the man,
growing used to the employment of anti-conceptive practices, may finally
lose respect for the woman and, no longer caring for her
physical and psychological equilibrium, may come to the point of
considering her as an instrument of selfish enjoyment, and no
longer as his respected and beloved companion.
Let it be considered also that a
dangerous weapon would thus be placed in the hands of those public
authorities who take no heed of moral exigencies. Who could blame a
government for applying to the solutions of the problems of the
community those means acknowledged to be licit for married couples in
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Most of us would agree that these things have indeed come to pass –
widespread divorce, infidelity, promiscuity, sex abuse, abortion and its
dreadful aftermath, abuse of children through sex-ed in state and even Catholic
schools, coercive programs for sterilizations and abortion in the less developed
countries (see report P.5) – the list goes on and on. It makes one wonder how
our society would be - if we had been faithful to Jesus Christ and His Church
instead of arrogantly thinking that we knew better. We can’t go back, but we can
REPENT and start anew. There’s no better time and no other time than NOW.
There will be a Day for Priests and Religious and a Health Professionals
Seminar as well as the Main Conference. There is a great lineup of speakers
including Bishop Cesare Bonivento – Vanimo (PNG), Father Thomas Euteneuer -
President of HLI (USA), Raymond de Souza - Catholic Apologist (Perth), Anne
Lastman - post-abortion grief counselor and founder of Victims of Abortion.
It will be a new beginning, as pro-life missionaries will be commissioned go
out from the Conference to spread the message throughout Australia. Be part of
it if at all possible!
(I hope to take in at least some of it as I will be going to Sydney to visit
my Mum at that time, and she lives quite close by. If you are thinking of going
down, can you let me know?)
Come
Away to a Quiet Place and Rest a While
Mark 6:31
A time of prayer, reflection and sharing for persons involved
in the pro-life apostolate in the Lismore Diocese.
At Mount Tabor Retreat House, 77 Northbank Road, Bellingen
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Saturday
27th September
7.30am Divine Office
8.00am Holy Mass
9.00am Breakfast
10.00am Dr. Deirdre Little
“Humanae Vitae - 35 years on”
12.30pm Lunch
2.00pm Open Forum*
4.00pm Divine Office and
Rosary 6.00pm Dinner Evening free for relaxing together.
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Sunday 28th September
7.30am Divine Office
8.00am Holy Mass
9.00am Breakfast
10.00am Dr.Deirdre/AngelaMartello
“Educating for Chastity”
12.30pm Lunch
2.00pm Closing Forum
4.00pm Divine Office and
departure.
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*During Open Forum anyone who does a specific pro-life work will share
with the rest of us about this work so we are all aware of what each other is
doing, the joys and difficulties in that work, and how we can help each other.
Please let me know your particular interest if you wish to contribute to the
Open Forum. Bring whatever resources you have to share.
You are welcome to come to all, or part of, the retreat, as you are able.
Mount Tabor Retreat House is situated
in an 80acre property, housing a small Catholic community, and overlooks
spectacular views of mountain ranges. Accommodation is basic, with from 2 to
6-bed rooms and share bathroom, and is limited to thirteen persons. Depending on
the number wishing to attend, we might consider the possibility of billets so,
if you live close by, and can offer accommodation, I would love to hear from
you. The weekend will be fully catered, and we will share the kitchen chores.
You may arrive for Friday dinner (6.00pm) if you have to travel a long distance
to attend. What you need to bring: • Bath-towel, and single-bed linen or
sleeping bag (blankets provided),
• Anonymous donation, commensurate
(if possible) with the cost of running the weekend.
Pregnancy Crisis line under Attack
If you look on the inside cover of your 2003-2004 Phonebook, you will find
listed the Pregnancy Helpline – a 24hr counselling service for pregnant women
and their families. However certain people have been making complaints to Sensis
(Telstra’s wholly owned subsidiary which produces the directories). Now the
General Manager of Sensis, Thomas Arthur, has told Right to Life Australia that
this entry will be deleted from the books as they are reprinted. The service
offered by Pregnancy Counselling Australia helps 8,000 callers a year, many
suffering from post-abortion grief. They believe that this is the result of a
campaign by anti-lifers to put a stop to the education of the public as to the
affects of abortion, and to the help offered to women in danger of falling
victim to the horror of abortion. Please consider writing a polite note to
Telstra protesting at the injustice of this decision.
Is Your Money Killing Babies?
The Australian Government is paying out every year $2,000,000 of our money to
UNFPA each year. UNFPA (the United Nations Population Fund) is responsible for
implementing aggressive population control programs, including forced abortions
and sterilisations in developing countries such as China, Peru, PNG and Mexico.
The Australian Agency for International Development (AusAID) is providing grants
of your money to UNFPA. What can you do about it? Write your local Federal
member and express your displeasure, or why not get together a group from your
parish to visit him/her with the facts? The pro-abortion lobby already has
organisatons selling UNFPA to parliamentarians. If you need more info, just
yell! I’ll happily supply it.
To a Very Special Person!
I’d like to express sincere gratitude to Wera for all she has done to
establish the work of the Helpers of God’s Precious Infants in Tweed Heads where
there are (not one but) two killing centres. I met Wera at the Human Life
International meeting held in Murwillumbah back in February 2001, where I put
out feelers to see if there would be anyone who would be prepared to “take the
bull by the horns” and launch a spiritual offensive against the killing of
pre-born babies. Since that time Wera has put herself heart and soul into the
protection of these little ones, with efforts to offer whatever was needed to
turn women away from this desperate act. This work takes great love,
persistence, courage and faith, and prayer, along with the ability to withstand
the attacks of those who stand to lose “business”. Of course the rewards are
great but it is not always possible to see them in this life. A friend of mine
told me that she now has a living grandchild thanks to the work of Wera and the
Helpers she has led. (Wera once told me that if she could save just one life,
all her effort would be worth it – so there is at least one, Wera! Now it is
time for Wera to step down and have a well-earned rest from her labours. We hope
that, from time to time, we will be able to meet and share some more happy times
together, and we pray that others will come forward to continue the work that
Wera has pioneered. God bless and keep you, Wera!
Yes, I wish to attend “Come Away to a Quiet Place” Pro-life Retreat on
the weekend of 27-28 September 2003
My special interest/work is………………………………………….. (Attach a separate sheet if
necessary)
Name………………………………………………………………………….
Address……………………………………………………………………..
Phone ………………………E-mail……………………………………….
For catering purposes, please answer the following questions: I will be
attending both days………….…..YES / NO I am only able to attend Saturday/Sunday
(please specify) I will need Friday dinner and accommodation..….YES / NO I will
not need accommodation I can offer accommodation, please give details……………………………
To ensure your place, please send cheque for $20 payable to Angela Martello,
17 College Road, East Lismore 2480 Enquiries: Angela: 662 12348 or Mrs. Coby
Bleys: 6655 0564 Mt. Tabor Retreat House: 6655 2093
I am unable to attend but would like to help with a donation. Enclosed please
find…………
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BRAZIL LAUNCHES INQUIRY INTO U.S. POPULATION ACTIVITIES A U.S.-sponsored
program, which resulted in the sterilisation of nearly half of Brazil's women,
prompted a formal congressional inquiry, sponsored by 165 legislators from every
political party represented in the Brazilian legislature, after information
about a secret U.S. National Security Council memorandum on American population
control objectives in developing countries was published in the major Brazilian
newspapers. That U.S. foreign policy document, National Security Study
Memorandum 200, detailed a plan to target 13 large developing nations with
intensive efforts to promote population "policies'' that would allow the U.S. to
run massive birth control and sterilisation projects in those countries. Brazil
was on the list of 13 target nations because it "clearly dominates the South
American continent demographically,'' and its population was projected to equal
that of the U.S. by the year 2000. The report, jointly prepared in 1974 for the
National Security Council by the CIA, the Depts. of State and Defence, and the
Agency for International Development (USAID), listed 12 other nations whose
growth could give them increased political influence, and which were also to be
targeted under the international population program. Those are Nigeria, Egypt,
Ethiopia, Pakistan, Indonesia, Turkey, Bangladesh, India, Thailand, the
Philippines, Mexico and Colombia. The document was written after a proposed
"world population plan of action'' was denounced by large numbers of African and
Latin America nations, by the Vatican, and by the socialist bloc (except
Romania), during a UN population conference held in Bucharest in 1974. The
formerly classified strategy document was approved as an integral part of
American foreign policy in 1975. Brazil's Ministry of Health had begun an
investigation into the sterilisation program even before the American population
strategy documents were disclosed, which revealed that 44% of Brazilian women
between the ages of 14 and 55 have been permanently sterilised. The older women
apparently had the operation done when the program started, nearly two decades
ago. News reports charge that many of these women underwent the operation
without their knowledge or consent. The sterilisation program in Brazil, like
those in dozens of African nations, started as a relatively small, "voluntary''
family planning campaign, which publicly stressed spacing children rather than
reducing population growth. It quickly and quietly escalated, however, taking
advantage of unfavorable economic conditions - largely imposed through the
policies of the U.S. and other developed countries - to press for limitations in
family size. The massive sterilisation activities were mainly orchestrated by
BEMFAM, the Brazilian affiliate of the London-based International Planned
Parenthood Federation, according to news reports. The document detailed strategy
for persuading leaders in the developing world to cooperate with the population
program, urging that various agencies of the UN, the World Bank, and USAID
collaborate with other industrial country donors to influence leaders of
targeted "LDCs'' [less-developed countries]. It warned that there was a "danger
that some LDC leaders will see developed country pressures for family planning
as a form of economic or racial imperialism; this could well create a serious
backlash.'' The U.S. "can help to minimise charges of an imperialist motivation
behind its support of population activities by repeatedly asserting that such
support derives from a concern with (a) the right of the individual to determine
freely and responsibly their number and spacing of children and (b) the
fundamental social and economic development of poor countries.'' It suggested
that, where diplomatic initiatives fail to persuade leaders their populations
should be reduced, "mandatory programs may be needed and ... we should be
considering these possibilities now.'' Specific forms of coercion proposed in
the study were limited to food rationing and "taking account of family planning
performance'' in foreign assistance payments. It further advised that in
countries where leaders had raised strong objections to population control plans
population funds "would have to come from other donors and/or from private and
international organisations,'' although these groups would receive contributions
from USAID. In other words, the U.S. planned to conceal its funding of such
"private'' population activities. Nations in Asia and Latin America took most of
the pressure in the early 1970s, largely because African leaders were strongly
opposed to population control. But by the early 1980s, the World Bank had
revised its guidelines, and began promoting population reduction projects as an
integral part of development loans in Africa and as a condition for credit.
Today, most African nations have adopted formal policies that state birth-rates
are "too high'', thus opening the door to further pressure tactics by foreign
governments and international lending agencies. The action of Brazil's
legislature is an example of an effective response that comes too late. Already
about 25 million Brazilian women have permanently, and in many cases
unwillingly, been deprived of the capacity to bear children.
COPYRIGHT U.S.A. 1991 BAOBAB PRESS Vol. 1 Number 12
For more information about this story or about the Baobab Press, please
contact us at P. O. Box 43345, Washington, DC 20010--U.S.A.
Some of you will already know of the work of C-Fam (Catholic Family and Human
Rights Institute) defending life, faith, family & national sovereignty at the
UN, & the Population Research Institute who aim to end human rights abuses
committed in the name of "family planning," & premised on the myth of
overpopulation. Their work deserves the widest possible coverage. An example of
the type of horrific programs that they bring to light on Page 5.
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